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Mary’s Baby Bring Joy

Christmas is a time of miracles and for families. As I prepare for it this year my mind continues to gravitate back to that first Christmas. As a mother, grandmother, and aunt it makes me wonder what the women of Mary’s family thought about her and her baby, God’s Son. Did they throw her a shower or babysit Him?  Did they offer advice and help?  Who was expected to attend Mary at the baby’s delivery?

In our family a baby is a big deal.  Phone start buzzing as soon as the couple see the positive on that little stick.  Grandparents-to-be are over the moon excited as are aunts and uncles. IMG_0054 Siblings and cousins eagerly await the new one, also.  Funny, adorable pictures are sent or put on Facebook to let everyone know a new member will be added to the family.  There are showers to flood the family with all kinds of things for the baby.  Several of my friends have had Grammy showers.

There is not much information on the women in her family or Joseph’s. Some data can be found on the men but not women. Women were not mentioned much in biblical times, mostly just men.  Mary was an only child. I remember that from church and readings. It was indicated that she was a devoted daughter and very good.  Greek scrolls list Mary’s parents as Anne or Anna and Eli. They do not name grandparents. Joseph had siblings so Jesus had aunts, uncles, and cousins.  When studying about His family it is very controversial about if He had siblings.  I am not well versed enough to comment or debate this.  You will need to study up on it yourself and then please let me know your thoughts.

Confusing and emotional to think that God’s Son had a literal earthly family. Don’t you wonder what they thought? Mary announced she was untouched and having a baby.  Joseph backed her up. Wait a minute, she was pregnant and they were just betrothed.  Mary claimed she hadn’t been unfaithful nor had Joseph known her.  Did his family urge Joseph to stone or divorce her? Did Mary’s family make fun of her and think her mentally ill or promiscuous?  What would we do if one of our family members announced something miraculous and could only come from God, had happened to them? Would we believe them? Be envious or skeptical? Maybe happy? Excited? Would we want to hear the tale of this blessing and revelation from God Himself? Maybe we would yearn to know every detail of what Abba said and how His voice sounded.  We might believe them.  Perhaps or perhaps not. Humans are curious by nature but hard to convince.

Can you imagine how her parents felt when young teenage Mary left on a donkey in the late stages of pregnancy to go with Joseph to Bethlehem for the census? This mama here would have been climbing the walls if my daughter had done something like that. From that first step of the donkey until the first glimpse of her return, Mary’s mother was probably walking the floor. IMG_0052Mary left pregnant and came back a mother. The journey took a while to make, too, with no way to get news to her family.  Oh my! Mary had her baby without her mother or other family there. Did she return and announce “here is Jesus, our Savior.” Probably not. Mary most likely had to keep that bit of knowledge to herself.  Treasuring that blessing and holding it deep within her.  However, I would think Mary’s family gathered around to see her new bouncing baby boy when she and Joseph returned from Bethlehem. Families are universal and a baby unites them. He brings hope and joy. Everyone smiles around a baby. Happiness abounds when an infant is nearby. Women want to hold him. Children want to see his toes. Men turn into a pile of mush and say sing-songy things in a funny voice. Babies bring families together.

The same happened with Mary’s baby. God came to Earth as an infant, part man and God, as Jesus. He experienced things as we do. The advice and counsel we get is really from an “I’ve been there myself” viewpoint. Jesus understands. He gets it. He was scorned, beaten, harassed, bullied, and crucified. You name it and it was probably done to our Redeemer. True to scripture Jesus fulfilled prophecy proving He is God’s son. He unites all mankind and invites us to join His family, God’s family. He offers peace, hope, and happiness. He offers love and forgiveness.  He offers joy. Joy to the world.IMG_0053

 

Read a Book Monday: #GOSPEL

Are you a Bible reader? Have the stories in the Bible ever seemed not relevant to life today? I found a book that takes scripture and applies it to everyday modern life. It was written to give life, hope, and truth to Generation Now. A generation that is seeking God and desperately needs to find Him.

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#GOSPEL: Life, Hope, and Truth for Generation Now by author Daniel Rice was a refreshing look at Scripture and the Gospels.  It has a revolutionary, contemporary new insight to catch attention fast.  Just like in today’s fast faced world with television, video games, and going from one thing to another, author Rice is ready to grab attention and not let go.  This young adult ministry and evangelism book from Barbour Publishing will draw in young adults and older ones, too. The large hashtag on the front cover is filled with trendy hashtags such as #Craycray. Just the cover will draw teens and twenty somethings to the book.

“Five to ten seconds.  After that, the filter kicks in.”

There are chapters filled with stories that really explain things in the language of today for the generation of today. The author explains that in our world today we have a short few seconds to make an impression on someone and win them over to listen to our story.   “Five to ten seconds.  After that, the filter kicks in.”  Most of the time we are tuned out, shut out. Author Rice has taken the gospel and put it in everyday language and situations so that the Now Generation will better understand it. He has made it contemporary and new. Taking the stories from Paul in Romans this author uses everyday examples and tales to make the Bible relevant and alive TODAY.

This is the first book I have read by author Rice. I really enjoyed it. He has a very smooth, easy writing style. The book was nice to read and hard to put down. It was interesting, gave me ideas, and made sense. I would give this to a wide variety of people. People seeking God, those with questions about their new found faith, teenagers and young adults, people working with youth, are just some of the ones that would benefit from this book. For me this is a five star read. It truly is a great book and I plan on giving a few copies this Christmas. You should, too.

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Book Review: Prayers for a Heart-Shaped Life by Karen Moore

What shape is your life?  I had never thought about it before until I read this book on prayer.  That’s right, prayer.  The title is “Prayers For a Heart Shaped Life…..inspiring prayers for living life heart first.”  Interesting.  What does that mean?  Living heart first.  I was hooked.  Let me read more please, a lot more.

With its whimsical hardcover “Prayers For a Heart-Shaped Life” by author Karen Moore will catch your attention if the title doesn’t first.  Hot pink heart hot air balloons and flowers along with blue balloons and puffy clouds just make this cover happy.  I want to smile every time I look at it.  The small but mighty book is brimming full with 200 prayers that are “inspiring for living life heart first.” I was intrigued by the title and won over by the cover. Then I started reading……oh my! I was so hooked. It is 224 pages and I wanted more.

Author Moore has written a book to help us get closer to God. It is a God glorifying book meant to strengthen or even establish a relationship with our loving Father. The 200 prayers are set up as daily devotions. Each page has a title, scripture, and prayer. The prayer cuts to the chase. On the day “Doing the Right Thing” the scripture is James 4:17 (Remember it is sin to know what to do and then not do it.) and the prayer begins “Dear Lord, I have sinned against You…”. IMG_0036Wow, total honesty. Our God already know that anyway, but He just wants us to admit it to Him and ourselves. All of the prayers are like this, meant to draw us closer to God.

 

This beautifully inspiring book opens with a note to readers from author Moore. She starts it with “Dear Friends” and through her heartfelt writing becomes one. She seems to know with what readers are struggling. Topics are relevant and meaningful. The prayers are encouraging and lead to waiting more time with our Heavenly Father. It concludes with a prayer from Martin Luther and then has a scripture index.

Moore’s prayers will lead you into a special time with the Heavenly father and gently remind you to come to Him when you need an extra dose of encouragement. The prayers are titled so you can find a particular prayer to fit a particular need if you desire. I love the simpleness of the prayers as well as the encouragement and inspiration they contain.

There is a silky green ribbon attached to mark your place.IMG_0033 The prayers are not complicated or overthought, but they are sincere and moving. The issues are real. Some days I read prayers over and over again. I read them to help me or to a friend that needed encouragement. The intent of this prayer book is to lead us to God each day and live our lives with our hearts. We should give our hearts to God and watch where He takes us. Talk about inspiring and encouraging. This is it! I loved it. It is definitely a 5 star recommendation from me. I will be giving some for Christmas gifts as well as keeping one for myself.  You should check it out.

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Is it Better to Give, Receive or Both?

Have you finished your gift shopping?  Christmas is right around the corner. For me it seems like one day the leaves were just beginning to turn and then poof….it’s time to wrap Christmas presents.  Let’s talk about presents.  What is your view on gift-giving? Are you more of a giver or receiver? Which gives you more satisfaction and joy? Perhaps you like both. I do. IMG_3571 Giving gifts is a privilege, and getting them is a real treat.  I love how it makes me feel to know someone cared enough to spend time on me.  I feel loved.

It gives me great delight to choose and buy the perfect gift for people I love. I have a chance to reflect upon that person, his/her life, and our relationship while I peruse a variety of things. A lot of thought and time goes into each purchase.  Many times prayer does, also. I strive to make the person receiving my gift surprised and happy, but most of all loved and special.  I want them to know that I pay attention to their lives, that they are important.

“I’m not a fan of gift cards…”

That is why I am not a fan of gift cards. Why do people just trade money with each other?   In essence, it isn’t a gift exchange. To me it is basically saying “you aren’t adequate to choose something for me.”  Gift cards are the most impersonal gifts next to slipping money in an envelope.  Harsh words I agree, but it has been heavy on my heart and mind for a long time.  Don’t get me wrong, there is a time and place for both money and gift cards.  However, each and every holiday is a bit too much.

Unfortunately for some, gift giving has evolved into a chore and not an act of love. Not me, I thrive in showing my love through gifts and not gift cards. My spirit is crushed when I hear “let’s draw names to cut down on expense”.  Money shouldn’t be a problem in gift giving. There are many gifts that can be made.  It really is the thought that counts.  One year my son made every gift he gave.  That was over twenty years ago and we are still talking about it.  Gifts should come from the heart, wrapped in love.IMG_4287 They should relate to others that we thought about them during this Season of Miracles and Love. They should let others know how important they are to us, as important as a teacher or mailman.  They should build memories, happy ones.

Gifts should not make Christmas stressful. Gifts should make it happier for both giver and receiver. Think about the very first Christmas.  “Joy to the World.”   Jesus was the gift to us. A miracle gift of love. Sent from God to all of us.  He wasn’t sent to make our lives harder or stressful. No, not at all. He was sent as our Savior to set us free! Jesus taught and spread love. He paid our debt and gave us the best gift of all. Eternal life.  Yes, I love to give and receive gifts. His gift just happens to be my favorite one.  How about you?  Have you accepted His gift?

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Read a Book Monday: “Convicted” a true story and must read

Some books are good diversions from everyday life.  Others grab me by my heart and won’t let go even after I finish them.  This one still has me in its grasp.  “Convicted: A Crooked Cop, an Innocent Man, and an Unlikely Journey of Forgiveness and Friendship” is a page turning, engulfing true story by authors Jameel Zookie McGee, Andrew Collins, and Mark Tabb. This is the story of two men and how Jesus worked in their lives to provide healing and forgiveness. Set in Benton Harbor, Michigan and St. Joseph across the river, this story tells of the different lifestyles the two places provide.  It is a story of black and white, right and wrong, grace and mercy, forgiveness and redemption, and God’s healing love.

Convicted is an excellent well researched, written, and organized story. The writing is done in a nice manner. It flowed smoothly and the story definitely held my IMG_7159attention from page one until I finished the book. I ran the gamut of emotions while reading the story, too. Rage, disbelief, love, heartbreak, forgiveness, grace, and everything in between. I cried (and cried) while reading this touching story.

This true story is the tale of two men, a white policeman and a black man shopping for food. Their lives intersect at a store in Benton Harbor, Michigan. The shopper, Jameel McGee, was arrested but did not commit the crime. Andrew Collins, the policeman, falsely arrested him for possession of drugs with the intention to hdistribute. Jameel is obviously angry and disturbed about the unlawful arrest. To be sure that another drug dealer is in jail and off the streets, Officer Collins falsifies his report and lies to the court about Jameel. This sends Jameel to prison for three years. As time goes on, Jameel hears from God and learns to forgive and let go. IMG_7161Andrew on the other hand has continued his bad ways and ends up in prison himself.

The lessons learned in this book are relevant in today’s society. First off, we need to be honest. God has given us laws to live by and we need to obey them, We need to show grace and forgive others. We can and should, no must, turn to God and ask for His forgiveness first. Healing comes from Him. Redemption comes from God.

I would recommend this to everyone. Men and women alike will enjoy this book. Teens, too. It stays with you long after you have finished it. Really a thought provoking book. This would be a fantastic book club read because it needs to be discussed. I wouldn’t be surprised if this isn’t made into a movie someday. Definitely a 5 star rating.

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Read a Book Monday: “Journey into Grace: 150 Devotions for Women”

Do you read a devotional or devotional everyday?  Some people ready many thriving on the inspiration and encouragement they glean from them.  Others are not as IMG_3800fortunate to have much or any free time to read.  It is important to nourish and feed your soul just like it is your body.  I have found a great devotional for both groups.  If you need a quick three or four minute lesson to read alone or add to your arsenal, try this one.

Journey into Grace by Darlene Sala, Bonnie Sala and Luisa Reyes-Ampil is a 336 page paperback filled with inspirational devotions and published by Barbour.  Each devotion only takes a few minutes so it is perfect for the person wanting a quick morning devotion before starting the day or maybe one before ending it at night. I found them encouraging and thought provoking.

This devotional book is extremely well written. It is organized and planned out nicely.   Each daily devotional is comprised of a scripture, short devotional message, some reflection questions and a conversation with God prayer. The authors selected topics that are relatable and relevant to women today. Subjects include: IMG_4244discernment, love, priorities, time, things out of our control, surrendering to God, and so many more. Often the devotional was like a mini Sunday School lesson, teaching me.

Did I enjoy this devotional? Absolutely. It encouraged and guided me. Gave me strength and comfort. I received inspiration and deepened my daily time spent with the Father. It spoke to me. I would recommend it to any woman. Having three authors provides the variety that is needed to give different perspectives. All are heart warming and definitely gave me thing to reflect upon throughout the day.

This would make a wonderful Christmas or Birthday gift. When buying it, don’t forget to pick up a copy for yourself. You deserve it! It gets a 5 star rating from me.

Read a Book Monday: “Deeper Waters, Immensed in the Life Changing Truth of God’s Word” by Denise Hughes

Have you ever read a book that touched your heart and mind? It felt like the book was written just to help you and transform your life? Me, too! That was what happened when I read “Deeper Waters – Immersed in the Life-Changing Truth of God’s Word” written by Denise Hughes. This phenomenal paperback published by IMG_5403Harvest House hits the streets September 1st. It is 242 pages of wealth on digging deeper into God’s Word and Voice.  Pre-purchase it and receive a free book along with it.

Divided into four parts and followed with an Epilogue, author Hughes starts her book with “The Voice We Hear” and I am immediately hooked. Who wouldn’t be? Not only a Christian Living book, this turned out to be a Bible Study and partial Memoir. The author is transparent in her book and shares with readers the personal and heart-stirring story of what brought her to God’s Word. She reveals her struggles, trials and triumphs making her relatable. By the end of the book I felt like I had a new friend and (much younger) mentor.  She helped me when I didn’t realized I needed help.

I enjoyed her writing style and insights very much. It was easy to read and understand while being thought provoking at the same time. This book is well organized, well thought, and well written. Most of all it is God glorifying and helps each reader with her Christian Walk and reading God’s precious Word. The author’s love and joy for God is contagious just by reading her powerful words.  She has a passion for God and wants to share it.

“Deeper Waters” is a Book for those wanting to dig deeper and not just skim the surface of God’s Word. Her suggestion for anyone and everyone, whether a seasoned IMG_5402bible reader or novice just beginning, is to read, write, and pray God’s Word. No typing. Write it with your hand on paper so that it stays with you.  She has a variety of things to share to enlighten and encourage.  There is much more packed into this impactful jewel.

I definitely recommend this wonderful book. It will make you delve deeper into the Bible and strengthen your relationship with God. You will find yourself looking deep into yourself, also. “Where do you feel most comfortable? Where is your place to read your Bible and connect with God? Do you really, really know you can bring everything to God?” This is a great readers group or bible study book. It has so much to think on and discuss. Buy a copy for yourself and a friend. You will want to discuss it and how it impacts your life. It gets a 5 star IMG_5399recommendation.

What is Your Favorite Gift?

Gifts are great. I love getting and receiving them. Do you? Of course, you do. Everyone loves getting gifts. What was the favorite gift that you have ever received?  It makes you smile just thinking about it, doesn’t it?

Actually today I want to talk about a different type of gift that we have all gotten. Yes, each and everyone of us. What gift did our Heavenly Father give to you? Now, don’t even try to tell me that you don’t have one. Everybody has at the very least one of them.IMG_4288

Abba has generously and graciously given us each gifts. Have you recognized yours? What are they? No, don’t tell me that you were skipped. God doesn’t work like that. He would not give His children gifts and talents, but when He created you decide to stop.

There are many types of gifts. Being a good father or mother, husband or wife, or grandfather or grandmother are gifts. Other gifts are healing, teaching, caring, cooking, singing, art, dancing, listening, writing, problem solving, spending time with people, gift giving, and more than I could list. img_0899Both of my grandmothers were talented cooks. Even cleaning is a gift. My sweet mother keeps the cleanest house and it is a talent of hers. How about bring others to Jesus? That’s another one. Being gracious, making people feel at ease, taking charge in emergency situations, always being cheerful are gifts that not everyone has. Think about what you really enjoy and what you are able to do well. Chances are those are the gifts or talents Abba has placed on you.

I cannot sing like my beautiful cousin Kelsey or her brother Kyle. Our family is blessed with their voices. I am not athletic like my nieces Phoebe and Emma (or beautiful like they are). Shannon, my cousin, has used her gift of cooking and testifying in her catering business.  My mother has a gift of caring. She not only cares for family and friends but also those that are less fortunate. Mom is a giver. My friend Terri has the gift of friendship. It doesn’t matter if it has been one week or ten years since we have seen each other time has stood still. Same with some of my high school friends. Our neighbor frequently sends bread, biscuits, and cards just to let us know we are in their thoughts. My friends Kristie and Annette have a gift of rescuing and nurturing animals. Another friend, Donna is an excellent author and runs a charity. Our son, Jason, has many gifts. Discernment, caring, and teaching his children about nature are just some of them.IMG_4286

You do have at least one gift, don’t you? I would love to hear from you and find out what your gift is. Leave me a comment and tell me what gift or talent Abba has presented to you? Where is your heart? What do you love to do? Me, I love to write, give gifts, cook, and take care of people. Those are all given to me from the Father. I have more than one, and I bet you do, too. I can’t wait to hear.

“As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace.” I Peter 4:10

“Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness.” Romans 12:6-8

 

 

Read a Book Monday: #truth: 365 devotions for teens connecting LIFE and FAITH by Josh McDowell

Do you read a devotion every morning? Maybe you read one at night or while the family is gathered around the dinner table. I have found an excellent one for the teens in your family and life. “#Truth 365 Devotions for Teens Connecting LIFE and FAITH” by author Josh McDowell is a paperback one year devotion for teenagers.IMG_4279 Published by Barbour it is packed full of inspiration for middle and high schoolers. The cover is plain white and to the point: #truth. Teens don’t want a lot of extras. Just get to the point with them.

Author McDowell has written a lot of books. He relates well to family and children, having four kids and ten grandkids of his own. This devotional shows how he knows teens and to talk to them.

In this book, each month takes on a different truth or topic. All twelve of them are things teenagers ask about and wonder. The daily devotions themselves are only one page long. Long enough to make a point and short enough to fit into a busy schedule or maintain interest. The date and title is at the top of the page. Next comes a scripture reading, the questions, truth is answer, and a prayer closes the day. It is simple, easy, and powerful. McDowell takes faith and life for teenagers and joins them together. He presents truth and answers questions that will assist in spiritual growth and everyday walk with God.IMG_4282

This is a well written, organized, thought provoking book. It will encourage, enlighten, and engage all readers. Topics are relevant. Each month a truth is discussed. Here is a sampling of the first quarter.

January: The Truth That God Exists
February: …About God’s Word
March: …About Original Sin
April: …About God Becoming Human

I, as a grandmother, even enjoyed and was inspired by this book. On my own grandmother’s birthday the devotion was about not worrying. “Give Worries Away.” That is something everyone struggles with from time to time, and my grandmother would often say not to worry. It was extra special to read that message on what would have been her birthday. Like getting a wink from God. The devotion was great, too.

There is nothing in this book except one page devotions. No acknowledgements, nothing about the author, no group study questions. The first page starts January, An Awesome God and the last page is December 31 Forever Grateful. This is for broadening a relationship with Abba. I highly recommend it. It would be the perfect Christmas gift, birthday gift, or just because gift. A 5 out of 5 star rating from me for this awesome book!

“Do not forget the things I have done throughout history. For I am God – I alone! I am God, and there is no one else like me.” Isaiah 46:9 NLT

 

Lion Food

Being a Christian isn’t always easy, is it? So much is trying to run us off track. Even little things. Satan is on the prowl to see how he can tempt us and mess things up for us. Scripture tells us he is like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Gulp! IMG_4305We constantly need to be on our toes and wearing our armor for protection. For Satan nothing is off limits. He uses friends, music, television, internet, and movies among a multitude of things and people to brainwash us into thinking bad is actually okay. More than okay, bad is good.

Denny and I spend a lot more time together watching tv shows and movies now that he is retired. It would be nice if we just watched things on the Christian stations but that never happens. Perhaps the devil has a remote to switch our channels, too. The regular, cable, and movie channels are far less than God glorifying.

A girlfriend and I were chatting about a movie we had both seen the previous night. Our husbands are like two peas in a pod, liking the same things and cannot watch tv without holding the remote tightly in their hand. That must be a guy thing. Is it? This movie though was an older chick flick about a disgruntled divorced man and a woman who was separated from her husband due to his infidelity. As the movie progressed so did a romance between them. The estranged husband repented and asked his wife’s forgiveness. He wanted to come home to her and their children. She was in the middle of a passionate affair and said no, supported by her best friend. What is wrong with this scenario?

My girlfriend and I wanted to cheer for the couple. The guy was a dream. Even her best friend was voting for him. He was good looking, a gentleman, complimented her, danced like they do only in the movies, and held her face as he gazed into her eyes and kissed her, the wife of another man. It was an affair we were watching and encouraging. IMG_4299Instead of being appalled we wanted to condone and celebrate adultery and fornication between the two movie characters. What was our problem? I would have a really big problem if some woman wanted to look longingly into my hubby’s eyes awaiting his kiss.

Then we discussed other movies and shows. How many of those have good examples and morals? Most all of them teach kids that lying is okay, shoplifting is fine, and they will go as far as to show them how. Young girls see sharing their bodies with anyone is no big deal. Marriage is not required before sex on television or movies so why should it be in real life? Outlaws who steal, kidnap, hurt innocents, and even murder become famous. They are protected and encouraged. Think about Butch and Sundance, Jesse and Frank James, or Bonnie and Clyde.

Where did your sympathy and loyalty go when watching movies about those couples above? Were you hoping for them to be caught and justice done? Or were you cheering for the liars, adulterers, fornicators, thieves, and murderers? Harsh words, I know, but true. Strip away the glitz and glamor and that’s what is left. Criminals and sinners.

I am certain that isn’t what God would want. Why would He want us to celebrate sin? IMG_4313What once was taboo is now perfectly fine because of seeing it on the screen or reading it in a book. This is influencing our kids. It’s okay to go on dates or sleep with someone else’s spouse. Sex doesn’t need the sanctification of marriage or God’s blessing. Couples should live together before marriage or at least go on romantic vacations. If you want something, take it. Breaking any one of the Ten Commandments isn’t serious. Oh my, how far we have gone from what God has commanded.

Perhaps it is time, past time, to stop watching those type of things or reading those types of books. Our children need to see examples of Christians living life the way God designed and commanded. They don’t need to watch rebelling against God and living by our own rules is okay. What should we use to decide what to watch? Good question. If you would be comfortable with Jesus watching the show beside you on the couch, it is a good show. Do what the Bible says and think on whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy. Teach your kids to concentrate on those, also. IMG_4306It is our job to influence our kids. Don’t feed them to the lion or be lion food yourself.

“Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” 1 Peter 5:8 NIV

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Philippians 4:8 NIV