Do you ever think that fathers are a bit overlooked on holidays? Fathers Day doesn’t seem to be as big of a celebration as Mothers Day always is. My husband told me earlier this week that he didn’t need nor want anything and for me not to buy him a gift for today. Even some fathers don’t feel the need to celebrate Fathers Day.
That actually was me for years. I was angry, bitter, and hurt. When I was just twelve years old my Daddy died. Not only did he did, but he died at home in front of me. I did not want to go to church on Father’s Day after that. Thankfully, I have gotten through that horrible experience but not without scars.
A decade or so after Daddy died a blessing was given to our family. I call him, Dad. For forty years this remarkable, selfless man has been the leader of our family. He is a devoted, loving husband to Mom and the best Dad that my sister and I could ever hope to have. On top of that, he is a grandfather that is beyond compare, just ask anyone that calls him Pappaw.
Dad is loving and caring, a good example for all fathers. His faith and Jesus are essential in his life. Whenever I need prayer or have a question about scripture, Dad is the first one I seek. He is also generous. I have watched him anonymously pay for a young family’s meal and ask the waitress to add ice cream for dessert.
Today, I miss him immensely. We can’t celebrate Father’s Day together because he is in Rehab working to recover and come home. I have sent flowers and am saving his presents to give him when I can see him in person. Covid19 restrictions at the Rehab facility only allow one person each day to see Dad for an hour or so. One person.
Until he is released I will draw on the many happy memories I have. We have had so many good times, and there will be more to come. Dad is a giant among ordinary men. He will work hard to get back home where he belongs with his booming voice, quick laugh, and twinkling eyes.
Happy Father’s Day, Dad! You are missed at home and loved beyond what words can express. I hope you are working hard now, because when you come home we plan on spoiling you.
No one can ever take the place of my Daddy. Dad made his own place. He has been a strong, loving, guiding parent to me for forty years. Did I mention that he is selfless, too? I owe him so much. I love my Dad and miss him today.
My Heavenly Father gave me a couple of great men for earthly fathers. I am fortunate to come from a Christian family. This scripture and my fathers go perfectly together. Abba took a bad time in my life and in the end He used it for good. Our family is so much better because of Dad. My Dad.
Readers, I hope you are spending today celebrating with your fathers. As cliche as it sounds, do not take your father for granted for one minute. Take it from someone who lost her Daddy when she was young and is now not able to see her Dad because of new visitation regulations. I would love to be able to kiss Dad’s sweet cheek and tell him how much I love and appreciate him today. Hopefully he knows that already.